不要讓批評的聲音偷走你的夢想-轉載(出處不詳)

你若想要做大事,就一定會被批評。

別人會批評你,挑剔你,論斷你。

我們難免都會被誤解,不被接納,感受到被拒絕的痛苦;但我們不必駁斥所有的批評,證明我們對,他們錯;我們該做的,就是奔跑路程,定睛在神給的夢想,別讓批評和否定的聲音,使我們分心。

很多人受到許多傷害後,就把這些傷害表現出來,個性於是變得愛批評、愛論斷、愛吹毛求疵;你不能讓他們受傷的生命來毒害你的生命。他們或許罵你、批評你、拒絕你,但你要甩掉那些聲音,別讓那些毒素進入你裡面。

你蒙召是要如鷹展翅上騰,你蒙召是要做大事,但人生旅途中,難免會有烏鴉對你呱呱叫,難免會有雞來啄你,想要打擊你,難免會有隼來和你爭吵,企圖讓你分心;但你要超越這一切,要知道,雞、隼、和烏鴉飛不到老鷹飛的高度。

烏鴉會來騷擾老鷹,即使後者體型較大、較強壯、力氣較大,但老鷹不會和烏鴉吵架,他不會追著烏鴉說:我要給你這個小搗蛋好看。老鷹非常聰明,看到烏鴉來搗蛋,他就飛的更高,他知道烏鴉飛不了這麼高,他知道不必吵架,只要展開翅膀,隨著氣流往上飛,很快就能甩掉烏鴉。

我們生命中都會有一些烏鴉,有些人會遇到一大群;難免會有人說我們壞話、中傷我們、污衊我們;我們若不小心,縱使神造我們要成為老鷹,也會淪落到他們的層次,我們開始批評他們,為自己爭辯,證明自己是對的,那就好像老應追著烏鴉,根本是浪費時間。

請飛得更高,換言之,讓你的生命說話。

生命中有許多美好的價值與關係,值得花時間去尋找、珍惜、與獲得,過程中可能覓得益友,也可能覓得損友或偽善的朋友(偽善講的是一種「真正的動機不如表面上的動機來得高尚」的狀態。例如說,妳喜歡的好朋友跟她的男朋友鬧分手,心情壞到不行,妳很替她難過,所以跟她談談,安慰她,希望她開心一點,這是種滿高尚的動機。換一種情況,妳不怎麼喜歡的朋友跟她的男朋友鬧分手,妳其實一點都不替她難過,而且還有點幸災樂禍,覺得她很活該。但是妳很想多聽一點她們吵架分手的詳情,來讓自己暗爽一下,所以就去找她談談,安慰她,告訴她妳很替她難過,好讓她多告訴妳一點情節。這種表面上的動機跟真正的動機不相符的狀態,就叫做偽善。而經常呈現這種狀態的人,就叫做「偽善者」,或是「偽君子」。 –fromhttp://blog.xuite.net/drhan/delusion/5531469),英文有句諺語 “ False friends are worse than open enemies.”講的中肯。如果看不清,仍舊帶著美好的價值如:信任,尊重,珍惜,忍耐、、、等去對待損友或偽善的朋友,就如同用自己的雙手握著刀柄,刀刃卻向著自己。拿刀向敵人容易,拿刀向朋友很難,最後卻不自覺的變成拿刀向自己;與其在錯誤的地方展現人格,不如認清事實,為自己存留那美好的價值與關係。重新認清,讓自己的生命說話!!–蘇姍

“But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you.”(Matthew 5:44, NKJV)

“If you’re going to do anything great in life, if you’re going to be a great businessperson, a great teacher, a great parent or a great leader, not everyone is going to cheer you on. I’d love to tell you that your family, friends and co-workers will celebrate you, but that’s not the case. Some people simply can’t handle your success. As you grow and increase, as God pours out His favor, somebody will get jealous. Somebody will start finding fault. Don’t be surprised if a relative tries to belittle or discredit you. If you focus on making everyone around you happy, you’ll start changing and lose sight of what God has placed in your heart.Friend, your destiny is too great to be distracted by people who are never going to affirm you. Don’t take it personally. It’s not about you. It’s their problem. Shake it off, run your race, be great anyway. Greatness in the midst of criticism begins with forgiveness. Don’t hold a grudge. Bless those who curse you; pray for those who spitefully use you. As you keep doing what is right, God will honor you. He’ll promote you, and you’ll see the dreams and desires that He placed in your heart come to pass! 

Father, I come to You today with an open and humble heart. I choose to forgive those who have criticized me. I choose to bless those who have hurt me. I choose to be great because You have equipped and empowered me to rise higher in this life in Jesus’ name. Amen."–Joel & Victoria Osteen 

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